I have this song playing in my head this morning, and I don't know why. I first heard it on My Girl 2. Smile though your heart is aching / Smile even though it's breaking / When there are clouds in the sky, you'll get by It reminds me of the old adage, fake it… Continue reading Smile
Category: Poly and Kinky
Trauma Responds to Patterns
I just read a really good article about trauma-informed care in D/s and kink. It made me recognize that sometimes it is not just in kink but in any type of relationship. One of the statements that stood out to me was that trauma doesn’t respond to reassurance but to patterns. My mind has always… Continue reading Trauma Responds to Patterns
Valentine
Happy Valentine's Day
Don’t give up
I was reading something just now. It was a letter of appreciation for life and where someone is now versus the very dark place they were without the love of their life. It was a lovely writing and positive and full of good emotions, but I couldn't help being disturbed in a way. Nothing to… Continue reading Don’t give up
Starting Over
Do you ever think about what it would be like to start again with someone? Meet them for the first time. I wonder what that could be like. If we stay on the same path as before. Maybe it takes you somewhere different, but wouldn't it be nice to relive that feeling of getting to… Continue reading Starting Over
Lisa Gray 