The one who cares. The one with empathy and kindness. The one who wants to see the other person who is there behind the mask. No matter what that mask hides. I love having friends who care when you throw yourself at their mercy. But to find someone who sees you and knows you and… Continue reading Be the One
Category: Poly and Kinky
A Miracle
(CW - talk of making yourself dead) “For the janitor it was a blessing, for the boy who would become an artist it was a miracle. Because all that spring the boy had wanted to die.” — My Friends: A Novel by Fredrik Backmanhttps://a.co/0acRnBdr I have been highlighting the hell out of this book. It… Continue reading A Miracle
What We Want
I was reading an article on Substack by Dr. Emma Blake and she had analyzed a survey and then created her own asking 200 women what they want in bed. Most of the things were not surprising and it was nice to think I am not alone in my wants. Dominance, intimacy, the taboo, feeling… Continue reading What We Want
Slowing Down
I have been slowing down on sharing myself lately. For many reasons. First, I am worried about filling the void with meaningless interactions and thinking that I somehow need the attention to be loved. This is not unlike my teenage years when I thought making someone cum was my way to get love and positive… Continue reading Slowing Down
Presence
A smart man said something about living in the now, being present. (It was Garth. He has a lot of great quotes.) Many people say it, actually. I think I am doing ok with it. Enjoying where the road takes me. Enjoying the calm that has suddenly cast itself upon me. It is a weird… Continue reading Presence
Lisa Gray 