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Lisa Gray

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Roles and Identities in Kink

Two Wolves

August 11, 2026 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

There are two wolves inside me: the girl and the BRAT The girl is the one who comes out for strangers and most people. She is the one full of kindness and compassion. She doesn't want to be a burden on anyone. She just wants to give them a smile and make their lives better.… Continue reading Two Wolves

Roles and Identities in Kink

My Dark Desires

July 18, 2026 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

I am always changing, so I always think it is fun to take quizzes that tell me more about how I do kink. I have done the  The What's Your Dark Dynamics Archetype? Test a few times. I love it. The thing about it is that it changes with who I am with. That is all part… Continue reading My Dark Desires

Roles and Identities in Kink

Playing a Role or Living a Life

April 11, 2026 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

There was a different sort of writing challenge today that I found. It has been a while since I have done one of these, but the title drew me in. I thought I might share here too. I have been here on Fet for a while. But not that long in the grand scheme of… Continue reading Playing a Role or Living a Life

Roles and Identities in Kink

Reciprocating

April 2, 2026April 2, 2026 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

No, I am not talking about power tools. I am talking about love and sex as per usual. I have a thing that I grapple with in all my big relationships. I think I have only ever been in love with two people in my life. Maybe. It is hard to know for sure when… Continue reading Reciprocating

Roles and Identities in Kink

Is it Kink?

March 10, 2026 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

I was thinking a lot about the word Kink and whether or not my writings fit into those categories. I have been thinking a lot about feelings and emotions and some things do fall within my emotional masochist. But I find myself falling in love and much of my writing centers around one person. I… Continue reading Is it Kink?

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