I was reading an article on Substack by Dr. Emma Blake and she had analyzed a survey and then created her own asking 200 women what they want in bed. Most of the things were not surprising and it was nice to think I am not alone in my wants. Dominance, intimacy, the taboo, feeling… Continue reading What We Want
Category: Reflections
Slowing Down
I have been slowing down on sharing myself lately. For many reasons. First, I am worried about filling the void with meaningless interactions and thinking that I somehow need the attention to be loved. This is not unlike my teenage years when I thought making someone cum was my way to get love and positive… Continue reading Slowing Down
Presence
A smart man said something about living in the now, being present. (It was Garth. He has a lot of great quotes.) Many people say it, actually. I think I am doing ok with it. Enjoying where the road takes me. Enjoying the calm that has suddenly cast itself upon me. It is a weird… Continue reading Presence
Where do you want to be?
This is such a popular question when giving interviews or going on retreats for work. Do you practice thinking about this? What are the things you always say, and what are the things you don't? I haven't really worked on my endgame. I know I have places I want to see. Places that don't match… Continue reading Where do you want to be?
Scared
I just read a meme that basically boils down to your not scared of love, you are scared of love leaving you. I am afraid of that. I have that feeling of wanting my heart to be safe in his hands. I want that to be true so bad but all I have are his… Continue reading Scared
Lisa Gray 