This was the subject of an email from a female submission newsletter I get. I was thinking about that word grace especially. So many times, I see the end of dynamics play out on social media and in my community. It hurts sometimes to see a great connection end, and both parties struggle with how… Continue reading Grace and Appreciation
Tag: Submission
And I Ran
I ran so far away I was running around some this weekend listening to a playlist, and I have this particular Flock of Seagulls cover on the most recent one. It is by Hidden Citizens I was thinking about the lyrics. So many of them fit a certain situation. I never thought I'd meet someone… Continue reading And I Ran
Dancing again
Dancing again. Playing a song in my head. Thinking of the ways he could lead me if he only would. I said I wanted him to see himself through my eyes. I want him to see what I see. I want him to know what kind of man he is. What I think he is… Continue reading Dancing again
Your Worth
"Your worth has never depended on anyone else’s recognition of it." I get that. I really do. But it is funny how when you get into a dynamic, your thoughts on this change. You know every time they give you praise and notice every time they do not. Your whole being revolves around pleasing them.… Continue reading Your Worth
My So Called Kink Life
I have to admit something. Most of my recent kink life has been in my head, with words, with writings, with flirtations online, and an online dynamic. I love the mental game of it. But for some reason, my body has decided that it is old. I went through perimenopause early and in the middle… Continue reading My So Called Kink Life
Lisa Gray 