I have been enjoying reading some of my older work. I posted a few things on Substack recently that got a bit of attention, and I was trying to think about how to follow that up. I'm reflecting on how things have changed. They really haven’t. Not much, at least. It is more about learning… Continue reading Submission from my point of view
Tag: Polyamory
The Competition
I am not going to compete. I may not even beg. I may simply just drift away. That is why I was so bad at poly. My thoughts were always if they want my attention they will give me attention. If they wanted to come find me I am right here. Then suddenly you realize… Continue reading The Competition
Happy Polyamory Day
Love is love and all that no matter how you practice it. Still questioning myself and won’t really matter until it does. So much of it went wrong but some felt right too especially in the moments. I like the idea of individuals getting to decide for themselves how they want to relate to each… Continue reading Happy Polyamory Day
Anchoring
I see a trend especially in the poly and kink communities of relationships lasting through that new and getting to know you phase and then slowing dying. Many don’t make it to that year mark. That somehow get past the 4 to 6 month mark but can’t make it further. Sometimes there is a good… Continue reading Anchoring
I Miss Him
This could be a number of people. But I am not talking about him or him even though I do miss them, too. I have been thinking a lot about being poly and being in love with more than one person, and I will be honest, I am questioning that and wondering if I have… Continue reading I Miss Him
Lisa Gray 