We are getting closer to that day of romance. The day some of us celebrate our lovers, some of us celebrate our friends, and some do the opposite of celebrate in some way. For me, it has been a mixed bag. I have a long-term relationship of almost 30 years. I have been privileged enough… Continue reading Valentine’s Day is On its Way
Tag: Polyamory
Past and Present
The post reflects on a day of introspection and conversations that provoke thoughts about life, relationships, and personal growth. The author grapples with the difficulty of letting go of the past while recognizing the importance of focusing on the present. Balancing polyamorous dynamics and emotional ties leads to a desire for clarity and energy conservation.
Dreams
I have crazy dreams sometimes. There are nights when they seem so vivid, and then I wake up and have a hard time holding on to them. I remember as a child having a special cold medicine my mom gave us and loving taking it before bed to see what type of dream it would… Continue reading Dreams
When was the last time you had sex?
I recently got this question through an anonymous question service. It is funny because I have gotten this before in messages. It puzzles me because I do not understand what answer someone wants. Why do they ask it in the first place? Do you want me to say I have had access to 4 penises… Continue reading When was the last time you had sex?
Heartbreak, Emotional Masochism, Compersion
Yes, all of these things are related for me. I have this toxic trait of martyrdom that plays into my emotional masochism. I sometimes break my own heart thinking that others do not want to be with me or set me as any type of priority in their lives. I have partners and metas and… Continue reading Heartbreak, Emotional Masochism, Compersion
Lisa Gray 