I was thinking a lot about the word Kink and whether or not my writings fit into those categories.
I have been thinking a lot about feelings and emotions and some things do fall within my emotional masochist.
But I find myself falling in love and much of my writing centers around one person.
I do that. With all my experience in poly and an open marriage, I still can hyper fixate on one person. When you add developing a dynamic, that gets even more pronounced. I have a hard time being devoted and surrendering to more than one person especially when that one person has a way of dominating me with just the right amount of attention.
What is important to me, though is not how to define or label relationships. It is seeing a person as a whole human and enjoying all the ways they fit into your life.
Lisa Gray 