I had a question come in today about rituals. Rituals are a big part of D/s but this was more about what rituals in your life do you have that you would feel weird if you missed it. Coffee and protein are the one thing I think of right away. But this past year, I… Continue reading Rituals
Category: Roles and Identities in Kink
My So Called Kink Life
I have to admit something. Most of my recent kink life has been in my head, with words, with writings, with flirtations online, and an online dynamic. I love the mental game of it. But for some reason, my body has decided that it is old. I went through perimenopause early and in the middle… Continue reading My So Called Kink Life
Overly Submissive
Is there even such a thing? A card was pulled for me today and it cautioned me not to be overly submissive. It’s like it doesn’t even know me. Honestly, though, I am one of those people that can be extremely submissive with the right people until I absolutely run up against something I am… Continue reading Overly Submissive
Being a Good Girl
There is something about being a good girl for someone. I like the way it feels. I like how it gives me a purpose, but I like the way those words are said, too. When they call you their good girl, when they say I am theirs. Using those words. Mine and my in front… Continue reading Being a Good Girl
Service with a Smile
Two things came across my feed the last few days that have me reflecting on my role as a submissive. I tend to lean into the service side of things. Domestic servitude is a role I have played all my life (Not actually exaggerating). I have no memories further back than 3 1/2 years old,… Continue reading Service with a Smile
Lisa Gray 