There are two wolves inside me: the girl and the BRAT The girl is the one who comes out for strangers and most people. She is the one full of kindness and compassion. She doesn't want to be a burden on anyone. She just wants to give them a smile and make their lives better.… Continue reading Two Wolves
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The Overthinker’s Mind
"The overthinker’s mind is a beautiful, busy, and sometimes very annoying place to live." — Unknown You already know I am an overthinker. I was overthinking today about whether I shared this quote already. But earlier, I was thinking about pet peeves and things that happen or behaviors from others that might annoy me, like… Continue reading The Overthinker’s Mind
Trauma Responds to Patterns
I just read a really good article about trauma-informed care in D/s and kink. It made me recognize that sometimes it is not just in kink but in any type of relationship. One of the statements that stood out to me was that trauma doesn’t respond to reassurance but to patterns. My mind has always… Continue reading Trauma Responds to Patterns
Lisa Gray 