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Reflections

The Overthinker’s Mind

March 31, 2026 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

"The overthinker’s mind is a beautiful, busy, and sometimes very annoying place to live." — Unknown You already know I am an overthinker. I was overthinking today about whether I shared this quote already. But earlier, I was thinking about pet peeves and things that happen or behaviors from others that might annoy me, like… Continue reading The Overthinker’s Mind

Reflections

Trauma Responds to Patterns

February 14, 2026 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

I just read a really good article about trauma-informed care in D/s and kink. It made me recognize that sometimes it is not just in kink but in any type of relationship. One of the statements that stood out to me was that trauma doesn’t respond to reassurance but to patterns. My mind has always… Continue reading Trauma Responds to Patterns

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