I am really just trying to be funny or cheeky with the title. That attitude is so not me. Like the very opposite of me most of the time. But it is something that I have seen a lot of in past partners and in divorced women. It tends to be a pattern there that,… Continue reading It’s My Way or the Highway
Tag: Refelctions
The Overthinker’s Mind
"The overthinker’s mind is a beautiful, busy, and sometimes very annoying place to live." — Unknown You already know I am an overthinker. I was overthinking today about whether I shared this quote already. But earlier, I was thinking about pet peeves and things that happen or behaviors from others that might annoy me, like… Continue reading The Overthinker’s Mind
Choosing which Relationships are High-Stakes (and so many lessons from the show, Breeders)
So lately, I have been diving into a bit of a crush on Martin Freeman (for reasons). This past week I finished binging a show of his on Hulu called Breeders. It really is a good show and so relatable in the worst ways right now. There have been many things presented that have made… Continue reading Choosing which Relationships are High-Stakes (and so many lessons from the show, Breeders)
7 Simple Words
Can't give everything when you give nothing.
Balancing Submission: Navigating Boundaries and Growth
I received a question through my NGL post and I thought it was a great question to reflect on and write about. In terms of your role as submissive, what is the best piece of advice you would give to your younger self? What would I tell My Younger Self? This is a great question, and I… Continue reading Balancing Submission: Navigating Boundaries and Growth
Lisa Gray 