Last year, about this time, I had an online dynamic end. The reason was a lack of intimacy. This is something that comes up a lot. Something I have seen in other people and their connections, too. Fet is a social media site and not necessarily a dating site. But people use it for that,… Continue reading What do you lead with?
Category: Writings
Fast and Slow
If I tell you to slow down, please don't. I couldn't stand to not feel you. I wouldn't want to wait another moment. I want your heart to beat as fast as mine. I want you to feel what I feel, that hunger, that impatience, that frustration. Tell me you feel it. But please, please… Continue reading Fast and Slow
Lemonading
Learning something new every day. It is that way of life, seeing things with hope, with an added dose of realism. Not toxic positivity but not despair. Hey, what's the point of this / Oh, hey, what's your favorite song / Maybe we could hum along / Well, I think you're smart / You sweet… Continue reading Lemonading
How do you see me?
I spend a lot of time trying to be someone who sees them. I want them to feel appreciated and loved, but I wonder how they see me. I feel like there is a certain response some people might have to my love and affection, like girding their loins. Worried about what will come out… Continue reading How do you see me?
Running Out of Words
It is hard when you run out of words. I'm typing this today after posting several pieces here and elsewhere. And decide to schedule this for tomorrow when you will read it. I don't want to inundate people, and maybe tomorrow will be my day to run out. It is harder when you see them… Continue reading Running Out of Words
Lisa Gray 