Do you ever just randomly say that in your head? I do. I say it in my head all the time when I pull up particular faces. It is not always about being in love with someone, but sometimes it is. I like making it weird sometimes, though. I like being able to love and… Continue reading I love you
Category: Poly and Kinky
Rest
Do you know how to rest? I don’t. Not always. I’m off work for more than just a day or two and I am not sure what to do with myself. That is not entirely true. I will be reading g most likely. Maybe writing but not much. I always feel guilty about not accomplishing… Continue reading Rest
Recovering People Pleaser
What does that even mean? I would love for people to focus on the recovery part of that phrase. Have them not assume just because they exist, they are entitled to my energy in some way. It is funny about that giving of energy. In my case, I save it for those who do not… Continue reading Recovering People Pleaser
Praise
https://theenlightenedmind622.wordpress.com/2026/03/06/the-trouble-with-most-of-us/#like-31339?page_id=31339 It is true. Especially for those of us with a praise kink. Tell me I am pretty even when I am not. Tell me I am doing great at something even when I am close to failure. The other side of this, though, is that there are many of us who would hear that… Continue reading Praise
Fated Mates
Do you believe in fate at all? Reading a book about vampires and they brought up the phrase fated mates. I sometimes think there are things predestined, but my mother would say, you have a calling. I don't believe in that. But sometimes I can't deny the idea of things being fated. It is just… Continue reading Fated Mates
Lisa Gray 