It’s about sex for me but that is not true of everyone in kink. And it is not just about sex. It’s about connection. It is about power exchange and connecting with someone in a way that it is not just that I want to surrender and obey and let them take control. It is… Continue reading Sex
Author: Lisa Gray
Former librarian turned wannabe author. Writing on my perspectives as a poly kinkster and submissive.
Roller Coasters
Life has been a bit of a roller coaster lately. But life always is, isn't it? I wish for the ride to stop sometimes, but how interesting would life be without getting on a ride every now and then? I do love roller coasters, the ones that speed you through the tracks and take you… Continue reading Roller Coasters
Surrender
Thinking about this word today in many different forms. When do we decide to surrender the control we think we have in this life? When do we surrender to the people around us? When do we just let go? Let go of the tightness, stress, and anxiety that have us in knots. See that we… Continue reading Surrender
Worth It
“Actually, there is a word for that. It’s love. I’m in love with her, okay? If you’re looking for the word that means caring for someone beyond all rationality and wanting them to have everything they want no matter how much it destroys you, it’s love. And when you love someone, you just, you… you… Continue reading Worth It
Good Girl
How would I tell her that she's all I think about? / Well, I guess she just found out / She's a good girl / She's such a good girl / She's a good girl / She feels so good (Carolina by Harry Styles) I want to be that good girl. I want to feel… Continue reading Good Girl
Lisa Gray 