I was thinking about something today. I have always had a friend in my life, or a set of friends that were really good at pulling me into crazy adventures. This was mostly in high school and college, and then my husband was the ultimate friend who could talk me into stuff if he wanted. Although I did find he was the safest person to say no to. I am not sure he appreciated that as much.
I am kind of a boring person without that pull. I think this is why I love dynamics. It helps me be free to do all the wild and crazy stuff and have that person to think of those wild and crazy things for me and keep me safe through them.
It is about the little things, too, though. Like exploring the city and taking a drive. Trying out a new activity or hobby. Friends help with all sorts of things.
Lisa Gray 