You shouldn’t have to. It should never be a question of what you mean to someone. If it is, then there is no true bond between you.
We can go through a period of wondering how we want someone to fit into our lives, and we can make space for all types of connections. But your whole time with them shouldn’t be a question, especially if you were made to believe you meant more.
I am getting old enough that it is time for me to not question. It is time for me to conserve my energy for what matters more to me. Still staying true to the way I share love and support, and being open to those who want to prove themselves worthy. It is not as hard as people think with me. The bare minimum is like a gift no other has given, so just add a bit more.
Lisa Gray 
It really is nice when someone stands out among the sea of ghosters and unavailable people looking for a quick hit of something. I feel for these people because I have done that too. Had that bought of loneliness and needed just a little bit of attention.
LikeLike