The last few months, I have been looking through my stuff and trying to find ways to get rid of junk. I have a lot of junk in my life and my house, and I have been overwhelmed by it to some degree.
I have been thinking about how to make room for the other things I want. I have to slowly ease back on some things. I have to say no to the things that no longer serve me so I can keep space for the things I want. It can be difficult, especially when you have people in your life who are so used to walking all over you. I am just as bad at counting on others to be my fallback.
But I also want to see that someone wants to make space for me. I don’t want to just be a fallback to others. I want to feel wanted.
It can be difficult as adults when we have so many responsibilities weighing us down. I would love to be in a position to live life for myself, but I have to make room for others, too. I am working on getting that balance right.
Lisa Gray 
It is really bad when you desire a change but there are no people to support you in making the change. They want you to remain as you are so that they can walk on you. But a mindset shift is what we need to come out of that jumbo
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This is a very good point and I think it takes patience and giving yourself grace to work though that shift.
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The key factor is time. How much time you give yourself to making that change and you are serious about it. In time , your new change will attract those people who are beneficial and not parasites to your life
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