I say this a lot sometimes without too much thinking about it. But sometimes I am scared to say it.
I want it to be felt and when I say it, I want to be believed.
I haven’t said it as much as I used to because I want it to have the meaning it deserves. I want that person to know I am serious about it. But I want those feelings to be matched as well. I want to hear it, too.
I think we can get hung up on that last part. Both waiting for the other to say it first.
Maybe like everything else, there is a balance and saying it with abandon cuts down the meaning but not saying it at all and waiting can leave you and your partner questioning for no real reason.
Lisa Gray 