There was an interesting question on social media today about telling people you are on a fetish site.
Full transparency I am and I post there often. I know you are not surprised.
I would definitely love any partner I had to tell me if they were there too. Most of my partners in the last few years come from there so it’s not a big deal for me.
But, one thing brought up is the ghosting. So many in my town do that or lose interest easily.
I had one guy find out I was good at something and throw out the word girlfriend quickly, but he just wanted that one thing.
I am holding out for something real and kinky and someone that stays. It’s been lonely but I hope it will be worth it.
