I am not afraid to be alone. Lots of times I prefer it.
When I make connections or choose partners and stay with them, it is because I see value in adding them to my life.
I sometimes identify as a toy or sub, but I do not choose that type of connection with just anyone. It takes the right energy and effort for both of us to keep that type of passion going.
You often see a frenzy where people long for connection and want it so bad that they make connections quickly that do not fit in the right ways. No one will ever find the perfect fit. but we should know those things that are the most important to fit just right.
Wait for it. It is worth it. In the meantime, think about how you are the perfect fit for you.
It’s you that has the same taste in books and movies. You like the same restaurants and enjoy the same hobbies. Don’t be afraid to take pleasure in yourself and your own mind and all the things you like to do.
