It’s Not a Competition

“It’s not your job to fight off people competing for your partner’s affection. It’s your partner’s job to consistently show you, and the world, that there is no competition.”

I always like to remind myself that my relationship with my partner is just between us. If I have a problem with my relationship it is up to me and my partner to figure out the issue.

I see a struggle that occurs where we want to blame our metas or other people in our partners’ lives. Your partner is the one making those decisions to show up for you or not. No one else is.