One of the more interesting things about talking to someone that lives clear across the world is that they are waking up the next day when your halfway through your day. They vet home from work when it really is past your bedtime the day before. But I can’t stand the thought of not staying… Continue reading Good Morning Texts
Tag: Dynamics
Respect the Rules
Another Writing Challenge
What is Kink?
Someone asked me an anonymous question the other day about what I thought kink was. I don’t know that I really answered in the right way. I recognize my bias in a lot of the answer. But starting out, I did talk about how that shifts as society shifts. The point of the word was… Continue reading What is Kink?
I’m a Brat with a lowercase b
I love the playful energy that my dynamic has. I love that my Daddy hits me with things on purpose to bring out the brat in me. I am not always bratty, but there is always a sarcastic, playfully mean person underneath the surface. It takes certain behaviors to flip that switch. I can't define… Continue reading I’m a Brat with a lowercase b
Anchoring
I see a trend especially in the poly and kink communities of relationships lasting through that new and getting to know you phase and then slowing dying. Many don’t make it to that year mark. That somehow get past the 4 to 6 month mark but can’t make it further. Sometimes there is a good… Continue reading Anchoring
Lisa Gray 