I want to be chosen. I know there are people out there that would choose to talk to me to experience something with me but all of that seems fleeting and superficial. I want to know what it is like to be anchored to someone again. I want someone to gravitate toward me. I just… Continue reading I choose you
Tag: Sex
Peanut Butter
It sometimes boils down to the type of PB you like. But many of the people I love love crunchy and I have been focused on creamy for a few years. My middle child loves crunchy but she never says that. Just goes along with whatever is bought. She is the most like me. Never… Continue reading Peanut Butter
Sex
Sometimes I feel like I don't like sex. And it is not that I am post menopausal and do not see myself as a sexual being anymore. And it is not that I don't like sex. I think sex just bores me. At least by itself. It is connections I crave. It is what comes… Continue reading Sex
What We Want
I was reading an article on Substack by Dr. Emma Blake and she had analyzed a survey and then created her own asking 200 women what they want in bed. Most of the things were not surprising and it was nice to think I am not alone in my wants. Dominance, intimacy, the taboo, feeling… Continue reading What We Want
Casual
I just read a title that says there is a cost to casual sex. I didn't read it before coming here to think on it. Maybe I will. I have been in a position recently where my body is not craving sex as much. I am getting older, and hormones are doing strange things. I… Continue reading Casual
Lisa Gray 