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Reflections

Don’t Hurt Yourself

March 29, 2026April 10, 2026 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

I sometimes hurt my own feelings. I convince myself something is off or I read into things. I am sometimes right which makes things difficult to decipher. Spending a lifetime paying attention to others’ moods and actions just doesn’t turn off. That is the only way I know how to keep the peace and keep… Continue reading Don’t Hurt Yourself

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Known and Felt

March 28, 2026April 1, 2026 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

Some things are felt long before they are known. That is a message I received today and it can have me frustrated, that unknowing. It is becoming a catch phrase. I have a decision to make. Continue to flow and let it go or take action and be more confrontational. This is something that pops… Continue reading Known and Felt

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What’s Wrong With Admitting?

March 24, 2026 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

“What’s wrong with admitting that we don’t know something? Is our self-esteem so fragile?” -Carl Sagan What’s Wrong With Admitting? At a conference this week so not knowing and knowing information has a certain academic view this week. But I do feel this urge to know more in other areas. Know a person so intimately… Continue reading What’s Wrong With Admitting?

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Crumbs

February 21, 2026 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

I read a piece today about taking the crumbs because the crumbs are so sweet. Sometimes it is not about you or them intentionally breadcrumbing. Sometimes it is about what you have to give in that time and space. I have been breadcrumbed a lot and I have a tendency to see and empathize with… Continue reading Crumbs

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Destruction

January 19, 2026 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

Destruction is necessary for creation. This is the basic message I got today from a random card pull. This is somehow what today is supposed to be about. If it is, the destruction started by someone else or at least at some other time. I am not doing anything today. I am just sitting here… Continue reading Destruction

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