It’s about sex for me but that is not true of everyone in kink. And it is not just about sex. It’s about connection. It is about power exchange and connecting with someone in a way that it is not just that I want to surrender and obey and let them take control. It is… Continue reading Sex
Tag: Power Exchange
Caged
I don't need a cage to feel caged in. I don't need rope to feel restrained. I just need him. I need his words and a look on his face. The type that says you are mine and there is nothing you can do about that. I will be his. He will do with me… Continue reading Caged
Trained
I was reading an article about how Dominants can train or introduce behavior modifications. It is something I have written about before. What you do has a great effect on the other person in power exchange dynamics, and sometimes people just don't think about that. Having said that. I love it when it happens. I… Continue reading Trained
Predators
Today is Thoughtful Thursday. We were asked to think about all the different types of people that we could run into on social media. One of the points was that there are certain types of predators that are really obvious, but then there are other people who disguise themselves. Maybe they are not predators in… Continue reading Predators
Presence
I had a few tasks today. When you are living within an online dynamic and developing a very long distance relationship, that is really the most you have to work with in feeling owned and feeling your partners presence. It can be fun to see what they come up with. But it is more than… Continue reading Presence
Lisa Gray 