When you're scared when your partner gains a new partner and lands in NRE with them, you worry you will lose something. Then you realize the sexy energy they are getting fed gets passed on to you too and then compersion hits, your mind settles, and you get to feed off of their energy.
Tag: Polyamory
Polar Opposites
They say opposites attract, but partners can be attracted to opposites. One observation I have being poly is the trend of my partners to pick other partners that are the polar opposite of me. I have light hair, freckles, and am pretty pail. Many of my metas have been very tan with dark hair and… Continue reading Polar Opposites
Protest Behavior
Protest Behavior What the heck is that? To be honest, I am not 100% sure. I did not read the whole book. But if you are interested in attachment theory, check out Attached by Levine (Polysecure is another popular title to find.) There are also tons of online quizzes, and your attachment style is based… Continue reading Protest Behavior
Need
I like to think I know what you need. I want to think I can provide that for you. I know that I can’t. Needs are interesting things. I sometimes struggle to figure out what they need and what I need with them. The need to please can be so strong that it denies my… Continue reading Need
Is it a Flag?
I have seen a lot of good writing lately detailing what some red flags and green flags might be for doms and subs. There are plenty on the list to look out for as far as red flags, especially for new subs to watch out for. Even Glamour has weighed in (although there is not… Continue reading Is it a Flag?
Lisa Gray 