Love is love and all that no matter how you practice it. Still questioning myself and won’t really matter until it does. So much of it went wrong but some felt right too especially in the moments. I like the idea of individuals getting to decide for themselves how they want to relate to each… Continue reading Happy Polyamory Day
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Anchoring
I see a trend especially in the poly and kink communities of relationships lasting through that new and getting to know you phase and then slowing dying. Many don’t make it to that year mark. That somehow get past the 4 to 6 month mark but can’t make it further. Sometimes there is a good… Continue reading Anchoring
I Miss Him
This could be a number of people. But I am not talking about him or him even though I do miss them, too. I have been thinking a lot about being poly and being in love with more than one person, and I will be honest, I am questioning that and wondering if I have… Continue reading I Miss Him
Valentine’s Day is On its Way
We are getting closer to that day of romance. The day some of us celebrate our lovers, some of us celebrate our friends, and some do the opposite of celebrate in some way. For me, it has been a mixed bag. I have a long-term relationship of almost 30 years. I have been privileged enough… Continue reading Valentine’s Day is On its Way
Past and Present
The post reflects on a day of introspection and conversations that provoke thoughts about life, relationships, and personal growth. The author grapples with the difficulty of letting go of the past while recognizing the importance of focusing on the present. Balancing polyamorous dynamics and emotional ties leads to a desire for clarity and energy conservation.
Lisa Gray 