It’s about sex for me but that is not true of everyone in kink. And it is not just about sex. It’s about connection. It is about power exchange and connecting with someone in a way that it is not just that I want to surrender and obey and let them take control. It is… Continue reading Sex
Tag: Ownership
Surrender
Thinking about this word today in many different forms. When do we decide to surrender the control we think we have in this life? When do we surrender to the people around us? When do we just let go? Let go of the tightness, stress, and anxiety that have us in knots. See that we… Continue reading Surrender
Good Girl
How would I tell her that she's all I think about? / Well, I guess she just found out / She's a good girl / She's such a good girl / She's a good girl / She feels so good (Carolina by Harry Styles) I want to be that good girl. I want to feel… Continue reading Good Girl
Make it Go Away
Daddy, there is a monster in my closet. "In your closet, is it?" Uh huh "Are you sure about that, Baby?" It is very loud, Daddy. It must be. "I think I know what it is. I think it is in your head. It is the voices. The ones that tell you to be scared… Continue reading Make it Go Away
Weaving
I thought about writing something about edging and denial. Maybe I will but maybe not here. I was thinking about this though and how sometimes denial puts me in a bratty headspace. This is not unknown information to the right sadist. Daddy has a way of liking the brat to come out. He does things… Continue reading Weaving
Lisa Gray 