Sex

It’s about sex for me but that is not true of everyone in kink.

And it is not just about sex. It’s about connection.

It is about power exchange and connecting with someone in a way that it is not just that I want to surrender and obey and let them take control.

It is about needing that with someone specific. Someone that not only lets me submit but needs that from me. Someone that shows that to me, that feeds their need to me.