There is a lot I want. I can sometimes feel needy with all the things I long for in my mind. I want: Love but in a way that involves lots of lust and attention Ownership that includes all the physical and written and showy markings and actions. Someone to play with and laugh with… Continue reading I Want
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What was I made for?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cW8VLC9nnTo So much I loved about the Barbie movie and so much to relate to. As a woman and as a child growing up, I had a lesson from my mother. She taught me to stand on my own two feet. A measure of success was finding a man to take care of you, though… Continue reading What was I made for?
It’s Not a Competition
“It's not your job to fight off people competing for your partner's affection. It's your partner's job to consistently show you, and the world, that there is no competition.” I always like to remind myself that my relationship with my partner is just between us. If I have a problem with my relationship it is up to… Continue reading It’s Not a Competition
Middle Space
https://www.youtube.com/embed/i_GA5GFAyKE?si=rKDdoWwJMbSpp5GS Olivia Rodrigo Belting out, Get Him Back Sometimes middle space means singing along to music that reminds me of being young again. I am not one that regresses. Middle space for me is about reliving or reimagining a young adult life that is healthy. One that reintroduces love and sex in my life in… Continue reading Middle Space
Lisa Gray 