I had an interesting conversation at work yesterday about being in charge of our own happiness and emotions and needs. I agree that feelings are ours to deal with but that doesn’t mean others can’t have compassion and empathy. There is a war in my brain about needs. On one hand we are in charge… Continue reading My Plus One
Tag: Dynamics
Take Me With You
I have mentioned a lot how hard long-distance and online dynamics can be. I have talked about how physical touch is a huge love language for me. But sometimes it is more than that. Sometimes you isolate yourself in a way because your hyper focusing on the dynamic and you lose some parts of you… Continue reading Take Me With You
Seeing you Smile
There is nothing I want more than to make people smile. This morning I read a few words that put a smile on my face and I realized I like it when I smile too. Life is sometimes stressful but in the last 6 months when things have been thrown at me that have the… Continue reading Seeing you Smile
Having a Bad Dream
I woke this morning past my alarm and felt a bit disoriented. I had slowly grabbed on to a bad dream I had. Usually I try to hold on to the good dreams and piece them together but my mind today was grabbing at this one and not letting it go. It was one of… Continue reading Having a Bad Dream
The Next Punishment
I am smart enough to know that I am not perfect and I will do something wrong. I am not smart enough to never do anything wrong. I was reading a story where the author talked about making her daddy mad and wanting that, wanting the next punishment. I am all for being punished but… Continue reading The Next Punishment
Lisa Gray 