Today is a day we recognize we are all sinners. Let’s keep sinning. But let’s be real about what is a sin and what is not. There is nothing in this world worthy of hate as I was taught. But I will hate on those that deliberately put themselves above others when they purposely hate… Continue reading Sinners
If Love’s Not Violent, It’s Not Real
7 words Words that I believed. That is how I felt about abuse, too, growing up. If it isn't violent, then it is not really abuse. I was very wrong about that. It's about knowing there are enough feelings, enough passion, to want to love me violently. It's about turning off my brain and putting… Continue reading If Love’s Not Violent, It’s Not Real
Worthy
This word plays through my mind a lot. Growing up we were told that we were not but we needed to do so much in order to be. We would never be pretty enough or slim enough so we had to find other ways to be worthy. Worthy of what, though? It’s funny how sometimes… Continue reading Worthy
Finding Peace and Naps
I could use a good nap right now.
Reciprocating
No, I am not talking about power tools. I am talking about love and sex as per usual. I have a thing that I grapple with in all my big relationships. I think I have only ever been in love with two people in my life. Maybe. It is hard to know for sure when… Continue reading Reciprocating
Lisa Gray 