I had a question come in today about rituals. Rituals are a big part of D/s but this was more about what rituals in your life do you have that you would feel weird if you missed it. Coffee and protein are the one thing I think of right away. But this past year, I… Continue reading Rituals
Smile
I have this song playing in my head this morning, and I don't know why. I first heard it on My Girl 2. Smile though your heart is aching / Smile even though it's breaking / When there are clouds in the sky, you'll get by It reminds me of the old adage, fake it… Continue reading Smile
Trauma Responds to Patterns
I just read a really good article about trauma-informed care in D/s and kink. It made me recognize that sometimes it is not just in kink but in any type of relationship. One of the statements that stood out to me was that trauma doesn’t respond to reassurance but to patterns. My mind has always… Continue reading Trauma Responds to Patterns
Down with Love
Do you ever notice that it is the ones who protest so hard about something that want it the most? People who say love is meaningless. Maybe they want it more than anything. I am trying to decide whether it is better to just love myself and not worry about what others love. They can… Continue reading Down with Love
Valentine
Happy Valentine's Day
Lisa Gray 