Thinking about that desperation and that primal urge to be ruined, destroyed, ripped open, and then put back together. It’s not enough anymore to do random hookups. I need that chemistry and attraction and that feeling of being wanted that comes from being prey to your predator. Chase me, tie me up, chain me to… Continue reading Primal Longing
Category: Roles and Identities in Kink
Am I a Brat
Likely, OK definitely. I have this tendency to come in strong with wanting to serve someone. In the past, I have been bad at sustaining that. I get burned out in that role; for me, it has been a role and an extension of past trauma. My last dom tried to get me to explain… Continue reading Am I a Brat
Degrade me with Love
Degradation and objectification are big kinks for me. I won't call them a fetish because I don't have to have it, but I am used to being shown more negative ways of affection than I am in positive ways. There is something about being used but it takes trust and security. Degradation adds that special… Continue reading Degrade me with Love
Chameleon
I was trying to decide what to write today and Grammarly pops up and tells me I am a chameleon. They are not wrong. They are talking about my writing style and how they notice the differences in my writing whether it is stories, essays, or emails to my boss. But I find myself a… Continue reading Chameleon
Being Owned
Power exchange and ownership are turning into my #1 kink. That feeling I get from someone taking over is such a rush. When you find the person, it just feels right. It is like world-building. Together you create your own world. You decide what goes in it. I love the process of finding out what… Continue reading Being Owned
Lisa Gray 