I had a friend today write about a partner and what it is he is expecting from her. It made her think about how she has always defined being a good girl. I think this is a very individual thing. We don’t have to define it in one way. For me it is about figuring… Continue reading Good Girl
Category: Roles and Identities in Kink
Happy Pride
I know I already posted today and it was kind of a heavy thought but it is Pride Month now and I can’t help but smile and think how wonderful it is to finally be free and in a position to admit I love love in ALL the ways. Happy Pride
Obedient
I have seen this word a lot lately. Sometimes the brat in me gets triggered by the word. But deep down, I am always obedient. Even when the brat comes out, I do it for him. I can tell that is the energy he wants. Both of us teasing each other with it. Even in… Continue reading Obedient
Mothering
Today is one of those days that not everyone is happy and celebrating. I am a mother, but I do not spend every day appreciating that role. I feel some guilt, knowing I have taken on some of my mother's avoidant attachment styles. There is some generational trauma that I wish I could have broken.… Continue reading Mothering
How do you define yourself
Watching Married at First Sight Season 10 Australia. It is really making me think about this question. There is one woman who, at the start, I thought I would identify with. She was older than the rest and concerned about her sex life. The way they edited their story really pushed the divorced, older, sexless… Continue reading How do you define yourself
Lisa Gray 