Degradation and objectification are big kinks for me. I won't call them a fetish because I don't have to have it, but I am used to being shown more negative ways of affection than I am in positive ways. There is something about being used but it takes trust and security. Degradation adds that special… Continue reading Degrade me with Love
Category: Roles and Identities in Kink
Chameleon
I was trying to decide what to write today and Grammarly pops up and tells me I am a chameleon. They are not wrong. They are talking about my writing style and how they notice the differences in my writing whether it is stories, essays, or emails to my boss. But I find myself a… Continue reading Chameleon
Being Owned
Power exchange and ownership are turning into my #1 kink. That feeling I get from someone taking over is such a rush. When you find the person, it just feels right. It is like world-building. Together you create your own world. You decide what goes in it. I love the process of finding out what… Continue reading Being Owned
Choices
There is a choice to be made. From the beginning, you will set the tone. How I behave and how I am perceived is a choice you make by feeding me your energy. Your effort and actions will affect mine. Who do you choose? the quiet, shy, obedient little whore who will wait to be… Continue reading Choices
I Want You Daddy
I keep coming back to this honorific. There is just something about that energy. Meeting someone that turns into a Daddy is so sweet. Having someone that you think of in your mind in this way is so nice. I will be honest, there is something about that bond that feels even stronger than a… Continue reading I Want You Daddy
Lisa Gray 