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Lisa Gray

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Roles and Identities in Kink

Sadists

June 11, 2025 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

I was just posting a pic earlier and thinking about the fight. The fight that happens between the brat and the sadist. For me it is about enduring the physical pain and enjoying the emotional pain. When I say fight, I want him to win. I want him to get what he wants. In this,… Continue reading Sadists

Reflections · Roles and Identities in Kink

Soft and Sweet

June 9, 2025 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

She said I got her if I want / She's so soft like silk chiffon / Silk chiffon / That's how it feels, oh, when she's on me (Silk Chiffo by Muna w Phoebe Bridgers) Remembering that first time, that first touch when my face met her soft skin, She was a stranger, a stripper… Continue reading Soft and Sweet

Roles and Identities in Kink

Good Girl

June 4, 2025June 4, 2025 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

I had a friend today write about a partner and what it is he is expecting from her. It made her think about how she has always defined being a good girl. I think this is a very individual thing. We don’t have to define it in one way. For me it is about figuring… Continue reading Good Girl

Roles and Identities in Kink

Happy Pride

June 1, 2025 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

I know I already posted today and it was kind of a heavy thought but it is Pride Month now and I can’t help but smile and think how wonderful it is to finally be free and in a position to admit I love love in ALL the ways. Happy Pride

Kinky Thoughts · Roles and Identities in Kink

Obedient

May 25, 2025 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

I have seen this word a lot lately. Sometimes the brat in me gets triggered by the word. But deep down, I am always obedient. Even when the brat comes out, I do it for him. I can tell that is the energy he wants. Both of us teasing each other with it. Even in… Continue reading Obedient

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