Ok. This title is total clickbait. The perfect submissive doesn't exist. The reason, there is no submissive or no Daddy or Dom or Master. We are all humans, and sometimes we throw titles and honorifics on ourselves to create meaning in our lives or to play a role. Sometimes it can be hard to separate… Continue reading The Perfect Submissive
Category: Roles and Identities in Kink
Rituals
Rituals help you connect, but what happens when they go away?
I’m a Brat with a lowercase b
I love the playful energy that my dynamic has. I love that my Daddy hits me with things on purpose to bring out the brat in me. I am not always bratty, but there is always a sarcastic, playfully mean person underneath the surface. It takes certain behaviors to flip that switch. I can't define… Continue reading I’m a Brat with a lowercase b
Carry Me
Do you remember that time as a kid when you would walk up to your parent and put your arms up and say, "Carry me"? Yeah, me neither. Most of us don't. But I do remember my kids doing it. Sometimes in my mind, I say it to Daddy. It is not his job to… Continue reading Carry Me
In Pieces
I was thinking about my role as a toy. I like the idea of being his chew toy. I am a big fan of bites and the thought of his mouth on me is something I think of every day. But I also like the idea of being a doll. Someone to dress up and… Continue reading In Pieces
Lisa Gray 