Is there even such a thing? A card was pulled for me today and it cautioned me not to be overly submissive. It’s like it doesn’t even know me. Honestly, though, I am one of those people that can be extremely submissive with the right people until I absolutely run up against something I am… Continue reading Overly Submissive
Category: Roles and Identities in Kink
Being a Good Girl
There is something about being a good girl for someone. I like the way it feels. I like how it gives me a purpose, but I like the way those words are said, too. When they call you their good girl, when they say I am theirs. Using those words. Mine and my in front… Continue reading Being a Good Girl
Service with a Smile
Two things came across my feed the last few days that have me reflecting on my role as a submissive. I tend to lean into the service side of things. Domestic servitude is a role I have played all my life (Not actually exaggerating). I have no memories further back than 3 1/2 years old,… Continue reading Service with a Smile
Thinking Tiny
I just saw an email about writing tiny just now, and it made me think of being tiny, or little. I do not always dive into that headspace. But one of my regrets was never exploring that with Daddy. Never asking him about what he liked about it or why that energy was something he… Continue reading Thinking Tiny
Submission
Sometimes submissive is the exact right word. Whether they see me as a good girl or a brat, or even a little monster, they are just looking in a mirror. Because I am a submissive. I bend to them just as I kneel for them. In my surrender, I adapt to what they ask for… Continue reading Submission
Lisa Gray 