That is what I am going to call my brat from now on. I had a moment this past week where we was wanting to have a full blown Veruca Salt fit. It is a big mood sometimes. I try to keep her on a short leash I try to calm her down I try to ram… Continue reading Veruca
Category: Roles and Identities in Kink
Final Girl
What does that even mean? I keep thinking of Taylor Swift wanting to tbe there end game. I think I would like either of those things. Not so much being that type of person, but having someone think I am that for them. We were watching Scream this week, and the trope of the final… Continue reading Final Girl
Rituals
I had a question come in today about rituals. Rituals are a big part of D/s but this was more about what rituals in your life do you have that you would feel weird if you missed it. Coffee and protein are the one thing I think of right away. But this past year, I… Continue reading Rituals
My So Called Kink Life
I have to admit something. Most of my recent kink life has been in my head, with words, with writings, with flirtations online, and an online dynamic. I love the mental game of it. But for some reason, my body has decided that it is old. I went through perimenopause early and in the middle… Continue reading My So Called Kink Life
Overly Submissive
Is there even such a thing? A card was pulled for me today and it cautioned me not to be overly submissive. It’s like it doesn’t even know me. Honestly, though, I am one of those people that can be extremely submissive with the right people until I absolutely run up against something I am… Continue reading Overly Submissive
Lisa Gray 