They say opposites attract, but partners can be attracted to opposites. One observation I have being poly is the trend of my partners to pick other partners that are the polar opposite of me. I have light hair, freckles, and am pretty pail. Many of my metas have been very tan with dark hair and… Continue reading Polar Opposites
Category: Reflections
Need
I like to think I know what you need. I want to think I can provide that for you. I know that I can’t. Needs are interesting things. I sometimes struggle to figure out what they need and what I need with them. The need to please can be so strong that it denies my… Continue reading Need
I wish you could see what I feel
I was saying this to someone thinking about how hard it is in long-distance relationships when someone is affecting you physically but can't see or feel that effect they have on you. But playing around with that line, I also started thinking about all the ways someone makes me feel emotionally and how they do… Continue reading I wish you could see what I feel
I Want to Say I Love You
But I don't. What is holding me back? Do I even know you? You show such kindness to me and to others, but do you show any other part of yourself? What are you hiding? Can I trust you? Do I want to know all the parts of you that are there just under the… Continue reading I Want to Say I Love You
Souls
Actually, your soul and mine are the same, we appear and disappear in each other - Rumí There are days when I know this to be true and days when the fear engulfs me and I wait for everything to unravel. I will be thankful for the journey either way.
Lisa Gray 