How is it that you are so perfect? No, not that kind of perfect. The perfect that suits me best. The perfect that is not perfect at all. The kind of perfect where you make me feel perfect even though I know you do not expect me to be. The kind of perfect where we… Continue reading Perfect
Category: Reflections
Fantasy and Reality
I sit here with you in my thoughts and fantasies. You will always be in my head. Your charm and flirtatious manner have drawn me in more than just your smile. I know that we will never meet. That is the reality, but it will not stop me from wanting and craving you. Do you… Continue reading Fantasy and Reality
Choosing Positivity: Embracing Accountability and Selective Self-expression in Writing
One thing I have found about writing is that it is very cathartic for me. It helps organize my thoughts. In my professional life, I have written and had published a handful of papers and journal articles mostly about evidence-based research, best practices, and practical solutions to problems in my field. I even held a… Continue reading Choosing Positivity: Embracing Accountability and Selective Self-expression in Writing
The Role of Responsive Desire in Relationships
I have been thinking about this word recently. It has several different meanings depending on what context you are in. You can be talking about responsive love or sex where you can be responsive to meeting your partner's romantic or sexual needs. But I have been thinking of it in another way. You have spontaneous… Continue reading The Role of Responsive Desire in Relationships
Someone to Somebody
Listening to music from the kid's playlist on the way home from a bit of an emotional outing. It was school shopping time and one of my offspring is headed to college this week. Poly is very interesting because I have more than one partner, but it seems I am always alone, always handling the… Continue reading Someone to Somebody
Lisa Gray 