I like to think I know what you need. I want to think I can provide that for you. I know that I can’t. Needs are interesting things. I sometimes struggle to figure out what they need and what I need with them. The need to please can be so strong that it denies my… Continue reading Need
Category: Poly and Kinky
Is it a Flag?
I have seen a lot of good writing lately detailing what some red flags and green flags might be for doms and subs. There are plenty on the list to look out for as far as red flags, especially for new subs to watch out for. Even Glamour has weighed in (although there is not… Continue reading Is it a Flag?
Poly is Hard
Poly can sometimes be a struggle for me. It is work and work I have to do on my own. I can occasionally ask for help or support but there is no way for anyone to grab the thoughts out of my brain and reframe them. I have to do that work. Add in a… Continue reading Poly is Hard
I wish you could see what I feel
I was saying this to someone thinking about how hard it is in long-distance relationships when someone is affecting you physically but can't see or feel that effect they have on you. But playing around with that line, I also started thinking about all the ways someone makes me feel emotionally and how they do… Continue reading I wish you could see what I feel
I Want to Say I Love You
But I don't. What is holding me back? Do I even know you? You show such kindness to me and to others, but do you show any other part of yourself? What are you hiding? Can I trust you? Do I want to know all the parts of you that are there just under the… Continue reading I Want to Say I Love You
Lisa Gray 