I am not afraid to be alone. Lots of times I prefer it.When I make connections or choose partners and stay with them, it is because I see value in adding them to my life. I sometimes identify as a toy or sub, but I do not choose that type of connection with just anyone.… Continue reading Alone
Category: Poly and Kinky
The Role of Responsive Desire in Relationships
I have been thinking about this word recently. It has several different meanings depending on what context you are in. You can be talking about responsive love or sex where you can be responsive to meeting your partner's romantic or sexual needs. But I have been thinking of it in another way. You have spontaneous… Continue reading The Role of Responsive Desire in Relationships
Someone to Somebody
Listening to music from the kid's playlist on the way home from a bit of an emotional outing. It was school shopping time and one of my offspring is headed to college this week. Poly is very interesting because I have more than one partner, but it seems I am always alone, always handling the… Continue reading Someone to Somebody
My Emotional Masochism
I hate you I love you Gnash Feeling used, but I'mStill missing you and I can'tSee the end of thisJust wanna feel your kiss against my lipsAnd now all this time is passing byBut I still can't seem to tell you whyIt hurts me every time I see youRealize how much I need you I… Continue reading My Emotional Masochism
Rain
It was raining today, hard and that is always a good time to dream of you. I dreamt of you last night. I was sitting in your lap with your arms wrapped around me. You were holding on to me, comforting me body and soul. That is the dream I have. The dream of you… Continue reading Rain
Lisa Gray 