But really, it isn't. When someone you connect with gives you praise by calling you a good girl or using a special possessive name for you, it hits just right. I remember someone saying that the bond in power dynamics is something special. There is nothing stronger. He was right, and it doesn't matter what… Continue reading It is just a name
Author: Lisa Gray
Former librarian turned wannabe author. Writing on my perspectives as a poly kinkster and submissive.
Pull Me In
I was thinking about something today. I have always had a friend in my life, or a set of friends that were really good at pulling me into crazy adventures. This was mostly in high school and college, and then my husband was the ultimate friend who could talk me into stuff if he wanted.… Continue reading Pull Me In
Music that Moves
Feeling the Feelings from Music that moves me.
Fairy Lights, Tinsel, and Decorations
(CW: Just a wee bit of sex on this one.) Not going to lie, this Christmas is going to be weird. No kids for the first time, and plan to spend it hiding away. I have been doing a lot of that, hiding. I am ok with that. I have certain people that I would… Continue reading Fairy Lights, Tinsel, and Decorations
A Thousand Moments
https://theenlightenedmind622.wordpress.com/2025/12/10/a-thousand-moments/#like-29711?page_id=29711 I think about this a lot. I feel like we are all guilty of taking time and people for granted. We think they will always be there for us, and we get caught up in that cycle of let me do one more thing, and then I can get back to this. Let me… Continue reading A Thousand Moments
Lisa Gray 