I was told some of the content I share is cryptic. I promise it is not. Over the last few years, I have been entirely focused on one or two people. I don’t think they are aware of how my brain and exhibitionism works. I like sharing but only in so much as it gives… Continue reading Cryptic
Author: Lisa Gray
Former librarian turned wannabe author. Writing on my perspectives as a poly kinkster and submissive.
Recovering People Pleaser
What does that even mean? I would love for people to focus on the recovery part of that phrase. Have them not assume just because they exist, they are entitled to my energy in some way. It is funny about that giving of energy. In my case, I save it for those who do not… Continue reading Recovering People Pleaser
Praise
https://theenlightenedmind622.wordpress.com/2026/03/06/the-trouble-with-most-of-us/#like-31339?page_id=31339 It is true. Especially for those of us with a praise kink. Tell me I am pretty even when I am not. Tell me I am doing great at something even when I am close to failure. The other side of this, though, is that there are many of us who would hear that… Continue reading Praise
Wickedness
“The sin unspoken is man’s greatest source of suffering and that which exempts him from salvation by grace. It is a sickness more devastating than any physical infirmity, poisoning the soul and befouling the carrier with its acrid, rotten smell, a smell known to the Adversary as the smell of blood is known to the… Continue reading Wickedness
Fear
Right on the edge of fear was where trust could grow." — Unknown Fear is a tool. It takes us somewhere further. It expands our mind. Gives us a place to move to and helps us see how far we can surrender, how powerful we are, what we are made of. We can look at… Continue reading Fear
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