Reflections

When You Have Me

When you have me, you have a lot. For some, it will be too much, for others, not enough. But for the right one, it will be just right.

I am no Goldilocks, but I do give you:

  • Love and support
  • Kindness
  • Attention (lots of it)
  • Devotion
  • Curiosity
  • Matching Energy (I do my best to give back what I give, but also think of how you can model what you want for me. I need that)
  • Honesty
  • Awkwardness
  • Judgement-free zone
  • Intellect (most of the time)
  • Deep presence
  • Anticipating needs (I do not always get it right, so help me with this)

I like it when they offer some of the same things back, but it is funny how there are just some things about a person that you see that feel right. They are never too much.

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