Do you ever just randomly say that in your head? I do. I say it in my head all the time when I pull up particular faces. It is not always about being in love with someone, but sometimes it is.
I like making it weird sometimes, though. I like being able to love and care for someone when it isn’t always about sexual desire. I think this is one of the things I liked about ENM and poly. You do not have to put your relationships in boxes. You do not have to label them or keep them from going to places. You can just care about someone, whether they care about you in that same way, without it having to lead to a finite ending.
Sometimes I just know that this person belongs in my life.
Lisa Gray 