There is nothing sexier than a man with his belt. I feel like that is all I really need to say. Most will understand what I mean.
But if I was to use more words and describe it, I would have to say something about the urge to have them use it. Something about the energy of someone wanting to use it on you. Someone to have such strong feelings to want to discipline you and care for you.
I love the idea of rough play because I want that person to feel that strongly and lose control, although they are not really losing control at all. Those who know how to wield a belt in just the right way are very controlled, very intentional with the power they have over you. I want that. I want to be wanted in that way. Someone who knows how far they can take me, take us.
Lisa Gray 