I recently got this question through an anonymous question service. It is funny because I have gotten this before in messages. It puzzles me because I do not understand what answer someone wants. Why do they ask it in the first place?
Do you want me to say I have had access to 4 penises this week? Do you want me to be that whore?
Or do you want me to say it has been months and I am desperate for your cock?
Both of these answers could be true. When people see that I am poly, I think they make certain assumptions. They put you in one category or another. You either sleep around and have sex all the time without any real relationships or connections. Or you are in a loveless marriage and you just want to find someone to help you spice up your love life.
For most of us, it may be somewhere in the middle. For anyone who falls into one of the extremes, it shouldn’t matter. Everything is acceptable.
I personally find just as much joy and excitement in the lead-up to sex and the intimacy after. I love sex, don’t get me wrong, But I just don’t see this question as relevant.
I understand they may be trying to find out about my sex drive. They might also want to live vicariously through my experiences and hope I get pretty detailed. That is not up to me to share the details, though. I may use them in my writings, but no one knows who I am with for the most part. I am not breaking privacy, boundaries, or trust with a partner by telling some stranger what we did in explicit terms.
Lisa Gray 