I just finished reading a post about kink being "safe enough," especially for those with PTSD, ADHD, or other types of neurodivergencies. I was playing around in my head this week with my emotional masochism and this read made it more intersting. I have never been diagnosed with anything, but I see patterns in me… Continue reading Fear
Tag: Submission
When he looks
I just read a caption where a woman talks about loving when her partner looks. I love the idea of that. I would love it if he would look. Right now, I am in that state where no one is looking. I know that is not completely true, but it is not the same when… Continue reading When he looks
Grace and Appreciation
This was the subject of an email from a female submission newsletter I get. I was thinking about that word grace especially. So many times, I see the end of dynamics play out on social media and in my community. It hurts sometimes to see a great connection end, and both parties struggle with how… Continue reading Grace and Appreciation
And I Ran
I ran so far away I was running around some this weekend listening to a playlist, and I have this particular Flock of Seagulls cover on the most recent one. It is by Hidden Citizens I was thinking about the lyrics. So many of them fit a certain situation. I never thought I'd meet someone… Continue reading And I Ran
Dancing again
Dancing again. Playing a song in my head. Thinking of the ways he could lead me if he only would. I said I wanted him to see himself through my eyes. I want him to see what I see. I want him to know what kind of man he is. What I think he is… Continue reading Dancing again
Lisa Gray 