I received a question through my NGL post and I thought it was a great question to reflect on and write about. In terms of your role as submissive, what is the best piece of advice you would give to your younger self? What would I tell My Younger Self? This is a great question, and I… Continue reading Balancing Submission: Navigating Boundaries and Growth
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Doors
Footfalls echo in the memory / Down the passage which we did not take / Towards the door we never opened / Into the rose-garden. / Time present and time past / Are both perhaps present in time future. T. S. Eliot Watching Dark Matter and this quote came up. The story revolves around a cube… Continue reading Doors
Promise I can’t Keep
I promise to be the good girl that you want me to be. I promise to be your whore when that is what you are asking of me. I promise to keep your needs and pleasure at the forefront of my mind. I yearn to be what it is you desire. But I can’t promise… Continue reading Promise I can’t Keep
Red Flags, Green, Flags, Yellow Flags, Oh My.
https://www.facebook.com/photo?fbid=384852331138864&set=a.101330689491031 I saw this post on Facebook and it made me think about the differences between me and my partner when it comes to dating and building relationships. My partner is very much a person who assumes good intent and will meet people where they are and hope they have a growth mindset. I have… Continue reading Red Flags, Green, Flags, Yellow Flags, Oh My.
New Relationship Energy vs Old Relationship Energy
Recently I had a card reading and asked about love. The cards revealed some challenges ahead and a lot had to do with the effort I was putting into it. This has me thinking of relationships and the energy and effort that you put into them. For a long time, I was feeling this new… Continue reading New Relationship Energy vs Old Relationship Energy
Lisa Gray 